I have a story to tell.

This goes way back when i was 14.

I was different then.yet i thought myself as normal. very friendly and nice,really. from the way i acted and spoke to friends and looking at how they treated me in return, i thought i was acting like how every other ordinary human being would and should.

It was not until after a very normal phone conversation i had with a friend that i had a wake up call from my parents.and it was one i would never forget for the rest of my life.

You see, from my perspective THEN, i thought i've always conversed normally with my friends. but my parents actually shook me up by letting me know how rude and at times, arrogant, of how i always sound.

And the worst part of it was that it has actually been going on for quite some time. I had some serious shelling back then from my mum&dad. i guess my friends just couldn't be bothered with the way i sounded since i've always talked like that ever since they knew me.

And when my parents brought up instances of when i sounded that way, i started to reflect back to the past and i was terribly shocked at the way i really sounded.it was the worst feeling ever.and suddenly i just felt frightened of how my friends actually thought of me.nobody told me before that i sounded bad.fine,i admit.i wasn't THAT bad but in the long term i'm sure i myself would've found it intolerable.and to my surprise,they were still my friends.my close friends.i really wondered why.

But anyway, I was furious towards my parents for being so harsh on me at first, i even remembered crying till my tear ducts went dry.but now i totally understand why and i thank them for it. if it wasn't for them,i wouldn't be who i am today.i even won an award for being the most polite girl once in school!!

Since that day i became very cautious when it comes to the tone i use towards other people.i'm more careful now with the way i speak and act.i might not show it but i am.i'm even VERY particular now with the tone ppl use towards me when they speak to me.i guess i take after my parents.

I have a reason for posting this actually. cuz i know of people who actually reminds me of myself back when i was 14. and i've felt this vibe ever since last year honestly. if any of u are wondering why i've been treating u differently,maybe this can be a major clue for you. trust me. it's for the better of yourself and others :)

Debra Chai Ling Ching,this post isn't about u but i hope u do learn something from it as well :) u wouldn't wanna go through what i've been through with mummy&daddy. just be careful of the tone u use when u speak ok? Mwah!Love you!

To those who still think i have been conversing with utter disrespect and if there was a time when i sounded rude for no reason, i truly apologise!

My sincere apologies goes out to everyone i know. :) it was never on purpose, i swear!

Victoria.
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